Name someone you know who always complains about not being able to find a "good man" or a "good woman." I have a lot of compassion for them. It's a tough world out there and dating is especially difficult because of all the games people play. I know all the games you play, cuz I play them too. Immortal words of George Michaels right there folks.
But I am beginning to think that with those people who can never find a partner they are satisfied with-the issue is with them, not single people. "Oh, I can't find a good man." Well, why not? Are your standards too impossibly high? Or are you such an unpleasant person that you can't find a "good man" to put up with you? When a guy complains that he can't find a woman who will put up with him-well, maybe if you stop being an ass, that'll solve the problem.
Life can provide you with bitter pills and uncomfortable truths sometimes. One of them is that a lot of problems you have in life are of your own making. Yes, it's true, sometimes bad things do happen to good people and sometimes you truly are a victim of bad timing and circumstances. But like a wonderful meme says, sometimes bad things happen because you act stupidly and make bad decisions.
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